Going Braless, Yes!

As long as I’m meat, men will define the boundaries of my identity and sexuality. I choose bralessness in a variety of circumstances. As a teacher, my job is to empower people. I choose to wear a bra at work because the stress of not doing so is not worth the hassle. But it turns […]

Braless Parties Have Rules Like the Fight Club

ok, so i haven’t seen the fight club, but i know there are rules. like the first rule is to not talk about fight club? right? the first rule of braless parties is that girls who do not arrive without a bra are required to take them off. they may take it home when they […]

Sex Tip #8: Go to Church Braless

I went to worship service Sunday night. The weather was fine so the day was in the sun. Holly came with me. She hasn’t been here for years. It was a good service. Lots of worship. Lots of arms waving in the air. Lots of singing. It felt good. The day was fun, with Holly […]

How did you find me?

My wordpress stats are always good for a hoot. Here I am, trying to find things to do in the next several days to ward off the start of school [denial, i know], and i’m trolling my stats for the search terms people use to get to…me. Here are the best of the 1’s [spelling […]

Sex Tip #18: Respect People’s Celibacy Choices

Like the title says. Respect it. The lesson I learned over the last few weeks creates that truth for me. Holly has helped me through it enough to write about it, appreciating moments of real contact [not just physically], and where I needed to learn where the line is/was. XOXO Holly sweet. It is marvelous […]

My Adoring Public :)

ok so i’m no superstar or celebrity, but i do like to talk. those of you who’ve been on msn with me know that. and all humility aside, i enjoy being able to engage with people in their issues. i’m no trained counsellor, but i listen well and ask good questions. and since i’m obsessed […]

Sex Tip #10: Nipple Flashing for Fun and Profit!

i’m a feminist and all that, but i’m also sensible. we live in an anti-woman society. we get paid 71% of what men do [5 years ago it was all the way up to 72% so it’s going down!], and we are biologically at greater risk of STIs than boys. i had a long msn […]