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Feminism vs. Christianity?
there was a great posting in a woman’s blog in BigChurch.com about feminism and Jesus’ relationships with women. i LOVED it. it just goes to show that the chauvenistic church of the day and ever since is quite strong. add in the council of nicea where a bunch of guys in a sexist culture compile…
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Sex Tip #1: Dorm Room Sexual Politics
so, here’s the post that got me kinda kicked out of BigChurch.com. it’s from Feb 8, 2006. now, i totally see now that it’s my bad. i kinda forgot the “rules” about profanity they have in there and i totally violated them. in hind sight i’m not sure how i could have euphemism-ed the whole…
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Reverent Agnosticism
it’s important to take the plank out of our eyes before criticizing the speck in someone else’s. this message is lost…or at best i think de-prioritized…by fundamentalist Christians. they go around judging because more important verses in the bible tell them to fix the world and make it in there image, which they believe is…
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And then some ambiguity…
after the post with all the honesty, someone else tossed a comment in. my comments follow it. Woo! I was hoping i was reading this wrong and actually it is ashame I read it at all. How sad, and I hope nobody takes your advice. May the lord open your eyes, it breaks my heart…
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And then some honesty…
so after my initial posting, which was pretty tame, got some angry judgement, someone else piped in with some HONESTY! her post is below with my comments following it. Hi Sex4Holly I found your post amusing. I am not surprise that there is alot of sex going on in Christian clubs or in Christian churches.…
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A fine start to my BigChurch.com blog
so as i said, i was in BigChurch.com for a couple years. for many months originally i was in there pretty regularly then over the last 1.5 years only sporadically as my real life picked up steam. then a few weeks ago i went back in more regularly and started a blog to continue my…
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Why this blog?
happy valentines day! this blog is the evolution of the last couple years of my life as a single Christian girl, particularly my time in the website BigChurch.com, which is a fascinatingly strange place. i went in there as i was becoming increasingly disillusioned with my church and its anti-woman, sexually oppressive stance. duh. sexual…